we cannot rely on other people.
we can trust others,
we can help them,
but not to asked them to hold your hand.
In a meaning of helping them,
we must bear in our mind that we re not the only one who caring to them.
they have other people who are very intimate more than us.
Don't feel that you are dependent and need to rely on someone.
because 'someone' are not only meant to you.
Don't feel that you are independent and others can rely on you.
because others are relying on more than one person.
we in here,
no one. just the body, soul and Allah.